🔗 Connecting Ideas in Korean: The Magic Words That Glue Sentences Together!
The Big Picture: You’re Building LEGO Sentences!
Imagine you have LEGO blocks. Each block is a complete thought:
- “I eat breakfast” → 한 블록 (one block)
- “I go to school” → 또 다른 블록 (another block)
But wait! What if you want to connect them? You need special connector pieces! In Korean, these are called 연결 어미 (clause connectors).
Today, we’ll learn 7 magical connector words that will make your Korean sentences flow like a beautiful river! 🌊
🎭 Meet the 7 Connector Heroes!
Think of them as 7 different bridges between ideas:
graph TD A["Your First Idea"] --> B{Which Bridge?} B --> C["고 - And/Sequential"] B --> D["서 - Because/Then"] B --> E["지만 - But/However"] B --> F["면 - If/When"] B --> G["니까 - Because/Since"] B --> H["는데 - Background/But"] B --> I["거든요 - You see..."] C --> J["Your Second Idea"] D --> J E --> J F --> J G --> J H --> J I --> J
1️⃣ -고 (Sequential: “And Then”)
The Story
Think of -고 as a plus sign (+). It simply adds one action after another, like beads on a necklace.
How It Works
Take the verb stem, add -고. That’s it!
| Verb | Stem | + 고 | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|
| 먹다 (eat) | 먹 | 먹고 | eat and… |
| 마시다 (drink) | 마시 | 마시고 | drink and… |
| 가다 (go) | 가 | 가고 | go and… |
Examples That Stick!
Example 1: Your morning routine 🌅
아침을 먹고 학교에 가요. I eat breakfast and go to school.
Example 2: Shopping list 🛒
사과도 사고 바나나도 사요. I buy apples and buy bananas (too).
Example 3: Describing someone 👤
그 사람은 키가 크고 잘생겼어요. That person is tall and handsome.
💡 Pro Tip
-고 is neutral—no emotion, just listing! Like a grocery list, not a love letter.
2️⃣ -서 (Reason/Sequence: “So/Because/Then”)
The Story
-서 is the “because of that” connector. It’s like dominoes falling—one thing leads naturally to the next!
How It Works
Verb stem + -아/어서
| Verb | Stem | + 아/어서 | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|
| 가다 | 가 | 가서 | go and then… |
| 먹다 | 먹 | 먹어서 | eat, so… |
| 만나다 | 만나 | 만나서 | meet, so… |
Examples That Stick!
Example 1: Why you’re tired 😴
많이 걸어서 피곤해요. I walked a lot, so I’m tired.
Example 2: A sequence of events 🎬
친구를 만나서 영화를 봤어요. I met my friend and then watched a movie.
Example 3: A polite meeting phrase 🤝
만나서 반갑습니다! Because we met, I’m happy! (Nice to meet you!)
🎯 -고 vs -서: The Key Difference
| -고 | -서 |
|---|---|
| Just listing (A + B) | A causes/leads to B |
| 밥을 먹고 학교에 갔어요 | 밥을 먹어서 배불러요 |
| I ate and went to school | I ate, so I’m full |
3️⃣ -지만 (Contrast: “But/However”)
The Story
-지만 is the plot twist connector! 🎭 It says “you thought one thing… BUT actually…”
How It Works
Verb/Adjective stem + -지만
Examples That Stick!
Example 1: Life’s little contradictions 🍕
피자를 좋아하지만 자주 안 먹어요. I like pizza, but I don’t eat it often.
Example 2: Weather surprise ⛈️
비가 오지만 춥지 않아요. It’s raining, but it’s not cold.
Example 3: Skills assessment 💪
한국어를 공부하지만 아직 어려워요. I study Korean, but it’s still difficult.
💡 Memory Trick
지만 sounds like “GEE, MAN… BUT…”
4️⃣ -면 (Conditional: “If/When”)
The Story
-면 is the “what if” connector! It opens a door to possibilities. 🚪✨
How It Works
Verb/Adjective stem + -(으)면
- After consonant: -으면 (먹 → 먹으면)
- After vowel: -면 (가 → 가면)
Examples That Stick!
Example 1: Dreams and wishes 🌟
돈이 많으면 여행 갈 거예요. If I have a lot of money, I’ll travel.
Example 2: Simple truth 🌡️
날씨가 좋으면 산책해요. When the weather is nice, I take a walk.
Example 3: Asking for directions 🗺️
오른쪽으로 가면 역이 있어요. If you go right, there’s a station.
🎯 Real-Life Pattern
V-면 되다 = “All you have to do is V”
여기 앉으면 돼요. You just need to sit here. (If you sit here, it’s fine!)
5️⃣ -니까 (Reason: “Because/Since”)
The Story
-니까 is the “here’s WHY” connector with attitude! It’s more forceful than -서. It’s like saying “BECAUSE of this, obviously…”
How It Works
Verb/Adjective stem + -(으)니까
- After consonant: -으니까 (먹 → 먹으니까)
- After vowel: -니까 (가 → 가니까)
Examples That Stick!
Example 1: Justifying decisions 🛍️
세일이니까 많이 사요! Since it’s a sale, I’m buying a lot!
Example 2: Giving advice 💊
아프니까 병원에 가세요. Because you’re sick, go to the hospital.
Example 3: Making excuses 🎮
주말이니까 좀 쉴 거예요. Since it’s the weekend, I’ll rest a bit.
🎯 -서 vs -니까: When to Use Which?
| -서 | -니까 |
|---|---|
| Soft, natural cause | Strong, emphasized reason |
| Can’t use with commands/requests | ✅ Perfect for commands! |
| 피곤해서 잤어요 | 피곤하니까 자세요! |
| I was tired, so I slept | Since you’re tired, sleep! |
6️⃣ -는데 (Background: “But/And/By the way”)
The Story
-는데 is the “setting the scene” connector. It’s like the opening music in a movie—it creates context before the main action! 🎬
How It Works
- Verb stem + -는데 (먹다 → 먹는데)
- Adjective stem + -(으)ㄴ데 (좋다 → 좋은데, 크다 → 큰데)
- Noun + 인데 (학생 → 학생인데)
Examples That Stick!
Example 1: Making a request 🙋
배가 고픈데 뭐 먹을까요? I’m hungry—so what should we eat?
Example 2: Soft contrast 🤔
이 가방은 예쁜데 너무 비싸요. This bag is pretty, but it’s too expensive.
Example 3: Introducing yourself 👋
저는 미국 사람인데 한국어를 공부해요. I’m American—and I study Korean.
💡 Why -는데 is EVERYWHERE
It’s soft, versatile, and conversational. Koreans love it for:
- Setting up background info
- Making polite contrasts
- Softening requests
7️⃣ -거든요 (Reason: “You see…/The thing is…”)
The Story
-거든요 is the “let me explain” connector. It adds new information the listener didn’t know! Like saying “FYI…” or “You see…”
How It Works
Verb/Adjective stem + -거든요
Examples That Stick!
Example 1: Explaining why you’re late ⏰
버스가 안 왔거든요. You see, the bus didn’t come.
Example 2: Sharing exciting news 📢
다음 주에 시험이 있거든요. The thing is, I have an exam next week.
Example 3: Explaining preferences 🍜
저는 매운 음식을 못 먹거든요. You see, I can’t eat spicy food.
🎯 Key Point
-거든요 is always used to give new information to the listener. Don’t use it if they already know!
📊 Quick Comparison Chart
| Connector | Meaning | Emotion/Tone | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| -고 | And | Neutral list | 먹고 마셔요 |
| -서 | So/Because | Natural cause | 아파서 못 가요 |
| -지만 | But | Contrast | 좋아하지만 비싸요 |
| -면 | If/When | Conditional | 시간 있으면 와요 |
| -니까 | Because | Strong reason | 추우니까 입어요 |
| -는데 | Background | Soft/context | 배고픈데… |
| -거든요 | You see | New info | 오늘 바쁘거든요 |
🎮 Practice in Your Head!
Try connecting these ideas:
- I’m tired + I want to sleep → 피곤해서 자고 싶어요
- I like coffee + I drink tea → 커피를 좋아하지만 차를 마셔요
- (If) It rains + I’ll stay home → 비가 오면 집에 있을 거예요
- It’s cold (so) + Wear a jacket → 추우니까 자켓 입으세요
🏆 You Did It!
You now know 7 powerful Korean connectors!
Remember:
- 📝 -고 = Just adding (and)
- 🔗 -서 = Natural cause (so)
- 🔄 -지만 = Plot twist (but)
- 🚪 -면 = Opens possibilities (if)
- 💪 -니까 = Strong reason (because)
- 🎬 -는데 = Sets the scene (by the way)
- 💡 -거든요 = Explains new info (you see)
Now go connect some Korean sentences! 화이팅! 💪🇰🇷
